Autism
In one sentence
Autism is a natural difference in communication, sensory processing and how a person understands and responds to the world.
What parents often notice first
- Strong, focused interests.
- Differences in play, conversation, or eye contact.
- Sensitivity to noise, clothing, or crowded places.
- Big reactions when plans change suddenly.
- ‘Fine at school but overwhelmed at home’ (masking).
What this means day-to-day
Autistic children may prefer predictable routines, clear expectations and extra recovery time after busy or noisy environments. Social rules that others pick up automatically can feel confusing or exhausting.
When to seek help
If sensory overload, social misunderstandings or communication differences are causing meltdowns, shutdowns, school refusal, or ongoing distress.
Who can help
- GP
- Paediatrician
- Autism assessment team
- Speech & Language Therapist
- School SENCO
Common myths
- Myth: Autism always looks the same.
Truth: Autism is a spectrum. Every autistic person has their own combination of strengths and support needs. - Myth: Autism is caused by parenting.
Truth: Autism is a neurodevelopmental difference, not caused by parenting style.